Girls are attracted to bad boys/assholes/dickheads.
Its true and most girls would admit it. It's ridiculous right?
I'm going to share with you MY theory and thoughts on this issue and hopefully it'll give you fellas some insight$ and you ladies something to think about.
First, most obvious question is WHY, Why do girls fall for bad boys?
It's cos girls like a Work In Progress, bad boys are a work in progress. Ladies have this idea that they can change a man and shape a man into the perfect man. They don't want someone who is already ideal, the find it boring...no challenge. With a dickhead she gets to fuss with his mind n style and shape him in to the man she wants him to be.
Let me say something to the ladies. GUYS DONT CHANGE WE ADAPT. You can't change who someone is as a person, its inbuilt personality we wont change. U will find though in the first few weeks the dickheads will be a gentleman, he'll do anything you say, like a fuckin lap dog. BUT after he gets into ur delicates and gets u there, NO DOUBT he's just gonna be a dick again. In conclusion u cant change a dude, he'll work around wat ur into and wat ur not and be perfect only until u have sex. Its wrong, but 9/10 times its the truth.
My advice if u want a certain kind of guy, look for him, dont just get sum dude just cos he's atractive enough and u believe he'll change for u...wont happen. Wait for the right guy to come, it might take a lil longer, but it'll save u a lot stress and there will be lesser chance of getting hurt. Like i dont get how ppl dont get a bad boy will treat u bad, good boy will treat u good, that simple. but in reality the mentality is bad boy will eventually treat me good. if u think like that ur delusional.
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You got that absolutely right, we women tend to think we can change a man and we feel damn good for "making an impact" on a mans life especially if he turned out great LOL. talk about achievement.
ReplyDeleteAnyway ill add something to that aswell.. another factor is security. We women like to feel like we have this knight in shining armor and we want a man to protect us when things get rough. . . . its sexy when you feel safe around a mans arm.
there are plenty of decent confident young men who will stand up for their women.
ReplyDeletebad boys would usually be the cause of why things get rough haha. but i can see where ur coming from there's that extra sense of security with a toughnut =P