Thursday, October 22, 2009
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Know Your Worth
You Deserve The Best
This all comes back to confidence. Don't let people take advantage of your good nature and don't let people get in the way of your direction. Let people know you are there.
As an individual, try to understand where you are and where you want to be. Whether it be socially within a group friends, academically or in your career. Look at what you have done, what you need to improve on and what you need to do. That is your direction, don't let anyone sway you otherwise.
If people say or do something you don't agree with, speak up, it might sting them a little but it'll open their eyes. Personally, I appreciate and respect the friends that are straight forward and honest to me more than friends that tend to beat around the bush, because their insight gives me the information I need to be a better person.
If you ever find that your life is a little off track or you find that you've made some mistakes. Pick yourself up and learn from it. Maintain a positive attitude even in darkest of times, because sometimes you need to get a little lost to find your way. It's the way life works, we grow and become wiser through mistakes and experiences.
Whatever you want to do, know that you deserve the best. Once you've found the tools to get there, be patient. Just because a doctor has a scalpel doesn't mean he's ready to operate.
This all comes back to confidence. Don't let people take advantage of your good nature and don't let people get in the way of your direction. Let people know you are there.
As an individual, try to understand where you are and where you want to be. Whether it be socially within a group friends, academically or in your career. Look at what you have done, what you need to improve on and what you need to do. That is your direction, don't let anyone sway you otherwise.
If people say or do something you don't agree with, speak up, it might sting them a little but it'll open their eyes. Personally, I appreciate and respect the friends that are straight forward and honest to me more than friends that tend to beat around the bush, because their insight gives me the information I need to be a better person.
If you ever find that your life is a little off track or you find that you've made some mistakes. Pick yourself up and learn from it. Maintain a positive attitude even in darkest of times, because sometimes you need to get a little lost to find your way. It's the way life works, we grow and become wiser through mistakes and experiences.
Whatever you want to do, know that you deserve the best. Once you've found the tools to get there, be patient. Just because a doctor has a scalpel doesn't mean he's ready to operate.
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Giving (girls) GOOD/DECENT Complements
is hard
"You're Hott/Sexy/Gorgeous/Pretty"
"You have Nice Boobs/Nice Eyes/Nice Hair/Nice Legs"
Those in my opinion are used too often...
I'm not saying that they're bad compliments, but they're not personal.....
I'd use one of those complements maybe once to a girl and never use it again.
Except maybe the nice boobs one....depends on the timing and who it is =P otherwise i would never use it...i dont think i ever have....
Personally i found that compliments that get the most response are those that uniquely suit her.
A compliment that isnt generic to be used on every other girl.
i guess because they notice you notice them. then you can put on notice that you notice her noticing that you notice her. =P (a lil quote from Fresh Prince hehe)
From observation, knowing that most girls like going shopping and they put a lot of effort into picking out the right outfit...its only fitting (no pun intended) to say that girls would respond well to a guy complementing their clothes/accessories/shoes.
I found that girls especially like it when guys notice they've done something different with their hair. Especially when its something as subtle as a trim or change of hair colour that isnt far off the colour you had before. They'll always tell you when you're the first one to notice.
i guess the compliment goes the same for anyone really.
The best compliments are those that praise the individual in a way that you can't compliment someone else. It shows that you appreciate and respect them as a person, not a piece of meat.
"You're Hott/Sexy/Gorgeous/Pretty"
"You have Nice Boobs/Nice Eyes/Nice Hair/Nice Legs"
Those in my opinion are used too often...
I'm not saying that they're bad compliments, but they're not personal.....
I'd use one of those complements maybe once to a girl and never use it again.
Except maybe the nice boobs one....depends on the timing and who it is =P otherwise i would never use it...i dont think i ever have....
Personally i found that compliments that get the most response are those that uniquely suit her.
A compliment that isnt generic to be used on every other girl.
i guess because they notice you notice them. then you can put on notice that you notice her noticing that you notice her. =P (a lil quote from Fresh Prince hehe)
From observation, knowing that most girls like going shopping and they put a lot of effort into picking out the right outfit...its only fitting (no pun intended) to say that girls would respond well to a guy complementing their clothes/accessories/shoes.
I found that girls especially like it when guys notice they've done something different with their hair. Especially when its something as subtle as a trim or change of hair colour that isnt far off the colour you had before. They'll always tell you when you're the first one to notice.
i guess the compliment goes the same for anyone really.
The best compliments are those that praise the individual in a way that you can't compliment someone else. It shows that you appreciate and respect them as a person, not a piece of meat.
Monday, October 5, 2009
finding balance
its difficult finding a good middle ground.
finding balance.
With anything really, work and play, fun and discretion even physically trying to balance something is pretty hard, keeping physical balance is hard...fuckin hell!
Too much of one thing is never good. except money...omg imagine if you had too much money...if there were such a thing...i'd hell jizz hahaha
annyyhooooo....
You know you're doing the right thing when you wake up the next day and you dont have any worries. If ur stressed, or confused about something you've probably got an imbalance in your life. Think carefully about where you're letting yourself down and make a goal to improve. Your goal will be your motivation.
finding balance.
With anything really, work and play, fun and discretion even physically trying to balance something is pretty hard, keeping physical balance is hard...fuckin hell!
Too much of one thing is never good. except money...omg imagine if you had too much money...if there were such a thing...i'd hell jizz hahaha
annyyhooooo....
You know you're doing the right thing when you wake up the next day and you dont have any worries. If ur stressed, or confused about something you've probably got an imbalance in your life. Think carefully about where you're letting yourself down and make a goal to improve. Your goal will be your motivation.
Sunday, October 4, 2009
when it all falls down
Dont you hate it when multiple aspects of your life seem to stuff up at the same time.
Its stressful. Too many problems at one time will cause headaches.
My advise is to focus less on the problem itself and focus on the solution. Thats the only way you're ever going to move forward.
It's easier said than done, I know, but you have to think of what's going to be better for you in the long run.
If you're really struggling, vent out your problems to someone close, they might even help you out.
Telling yourself "life's a bitch" won't solve anything.
Keep On Keepin On - Joe Dirt
Its stressful. Too many problems at one time will cause headaches.
My advise is to focus less on the problem itself and focus on the solution. Thats the only way you're ever going to move forward.
It's easier said than done, I know, but you have to think of what's going to be better for you in the long run.
If you're really struggling, vent out your problems to someone close, they might even help you out.
Telling yourself "life's a bitch" won't solve anything.
Keep On Keepin On - Joe Dirt
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